Conflict is not the problem
The way we DO conflict is the problem.
Here's what conflict and dieting have in common... 🥦
Conflict is like food: an essential, unavoidable part of life.
And like our diet, it can be healthy or unhealthy.
Healthy conflict is to your relationships what healthy food is to your body: nourishment and support for a healthy system.
Unhealthy conflict will grind away on your relationship systems the way that terrible nutrition will slowly destroy your body.
What have you tried to change your conflictual diet in the past? Let me know.